Wesley R. Stanley

Wesley “Wes” Raymond Stanley, age 65, of Muskogee, Oklahoma, passed away on Tuesday, October 21, 2025. Wes was a beloved son, brother, husband, father, caring friend, and devoted professional who touched the lives of many through his warmth and service. Wes was born on October 14, 1960, in Enid, Oklahoma, to James Alfred and Evelyn Irene (Walker) Stanley. He attended public schools and was a proud graduate of Ellicott High School, class of 1978. Wes briefly studied at the University of Nebraska before transferring to Doane College in Crete, Nebraska, in 1979. His commitment to learning continued throughout his life. In 1986 he moved to Muskogee where he went to work at Boral Bricks for several years. He then began a 15-year career at Zapata Industries. Wes decided to attend Connors State College Nursing Program and graduated in 2007 with an associate’s degree. After his graduation he went to work at Tahlequah City Hospital and later earned his bachelor’s degree in nursing from Northeastern State University in 2013. Most recently, he served as a registered nurse at the VA Medical Center in Muskogee. Wes was employed there at the time of his passing, remembered fondly by colleagues and patients alike for his compassion, integrity, and commitment to care. On May 18, 2007, Wes married Robin Lynn Remer in Fort Smith, Arkansas. Together, they shared 18 years of marriage built on love, support, and mutual respect. Wes cherished his family deeply and found immense joy in their company and achievements. Wes Stanley will be remembered for his genuine kindness, steadfast work ethic, and dedication to helping others. His life was marked by a quiet strength, a gentle spirit, and unwavering support for his family and friends. Wes leaves behind a legacy of service and love that will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. He will be deeply missed and forever cherished. May his memory be a blessing and an inspiration to all. He was preceded in death by his parents, James Alfred and Evelyn Irene Stanley; his siblings, James Asbon Stanley, Rodney “Randy” Stanley, and Gloria Jane Arnold. Wes is survived by his loving wife, Robin; stepdaughter, Elizabeth Remer, both of the home; son, Marcus Stanley and wife Talitha of Muskogee; daughter, Sarah Estrada and husband Michael of Tulsa; grandchildren, Gideon, David, and Emma; sisters, Colleen Mitchum and husband Joe of Okay, Laurie Kirk and husband Eddie of Edmond; and sister-in-law, Margaret Stanley of Ohio; along with a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, other family members and many friends. A memorial service celebrating Wes’s life will be at 10AM, Thursday, October 30, 2025 at Grandview Baptist Church with Pastor Jay McAlister and Bro. Danny Mills officiating.

Wesley R. Stanley

October 14, 1960 - October 21, 2025